At a primary school during break 28 children are playing a peaceful, if somewhat idiosyncratic ball game, with a ball bought by the 6 oldest kids.
Theresa has recently joined the school. She is not happy and and screams from the edge of the game “LISTEN”.
27 kids stop playing and look at Theresa.
Theresa “We will play My game NOT yours”
27 kids resume their peaceful game.
Theresa screams “I will take my ball away”.
But it isn’t her ball, so she goes off to sulk.
Next day she isn’t at the school. The 27 continue their game, developing it, as they mature.